'Fundamental Techniques In Handling People\r'

'He or she also does not want to let the dysphoric result to be happened. Hence, the first part has taught me that worry which is a value kn admit as operable wisdom ought to be implemented by two wizard of us. I permit learned that aroundone has to conceptualize doubly or thrice before he or she behaves and talks. This is be make out mass will remember what we talked to them especially the accusation and praise. Criticism and blaming will make state attend very complicate, angry, and change surface to be discouraged.Besides, I learnt to esteem deliberately with unhurried manner in rule to pay off out the most appropriate responses when dealings with different people under different business offices. discreetness is the exact opposite of impulsiveness and rashness. If we do not think deeply before our every action or speech, we may hurt someones fragile feeling as humans be creatures of emotion who have amply self-esteem. Humans argon perpetually afraid of criticism, prejudices, and complaint. most of us argon not willing to face the imperfect side of us but al managements wish to hear good words from others. M trying not to blame others of their faults even the heartbreaking ones. However, I try to stand in their home and understand their difficulties by show loving kindness. We should not expect either forgiveness from the God f we are not willing to forgive others offenses. From this, have learned to forgive people without any criticism, complaint, and judgment. I learnt to speak good words of others instead of tuition how to gossip roughly people and talk about their bad words. Like what Benjamin Franklin has mentioned about that he only speak all the good things he know of everybody and would not speak ill of anyone.I was so amazed by the way of Bob clean in giving response to the apprehensionless progeny man after the mechanic fueled in jet fuel rather than gasoline to propeller plane. This famous pilot, Bob Hoover gav e a insurgent chance to that young man in help his F-51 on the next day. Bob knew criticism and have words only can produce futility and resentment. This will cause the person who is being criticized tends to just#y himself or herself even lose their confidence when having daily performances in workplaces, at home, in school, and et. Tetra In other words, criticism may bring out unpleasant past experiences to some people, this may push them into a wrong channel which involve in various illegal activities. I have realized anger can be aroused by criticism. Thus, people would be profane as anger sakes a bad situation to be worse. I will avoid criticizing people. On the other hand, honesty has to be shown in value and appreciating others effort. Never ignore the good deeds people have done to us. Sho followg our gustation really is a kind of gratitude.Sense of appreciation and thanks for people liberal acts are able to satisfy the desire to be important in human. The desire t o be s thoroughly is the strongest natural craving of everyone. Have learned to advocate my surrounding people with sincere appreciation because the one who receives the encouragement and appreciation will keep n doing the right thing. If one does not get any attention from anyone after giving so much, that person will definitely feel very discomfited because all of their effort came out with nothing.Being sincere and not fake in praising people, this is also showing approval to a person. Flattering people to win friends is an act of doing harm to people. I learnt to understand people feelings of not being acknowledged, so honest and sincere appreciation are like very important gifts to everyone. A great man should not be egoistic as he or she should always care about others. We need to care about others unavoidably and help people to solve their problem are the acts to arouse in the other person an importunate want.By expressing our enthusiasm and passion to find out the sto ck reason of causing someones problem as well as their wants, we can be a kindly and helpful person. I also learnt to be careful of people point of view without mention and emphasize my own ideas only. I am trying to make my ideas to execute others inspiration in creating more great ideas. If we are really wanting and hoping to get the helping pass on from others, we must know about what they ant at first. While confronting any disagreement, the wise action is retentivity a cool-head which means to be rational in handling the particular situation.We need to calm down in order to think of the best way in coping with the difficult condition. To avoid any argument, I have learned that we have to give priority to the other party instead of ourselves. The author, Mr.. Dale Carnegie exposit his past experience of negotiating with a hotel private instructor. The manager increase his rent for the ballroom to 300 percent. Then, he communicated with the hotel manager in a polite way by stating out all the advantages and disadvantages that were going to accrue the manager.In the end, both(prenominal) parties gained what they wanted. Carnegie merely discussed what the other person wanted and how he could get it without throw tantrum to the manager in office. Before persuading people, ones must clearly know the benefits and disadvantages of both parties. In brief, I am so certain(a) that the several basic skills in handling people I have learned in this chapter will enable me to get a good occupation after graduated as the employers nowadays are searching for employees who are able to deal with people skillfully. (999 words)\r\n'